President Obama’s Support for Same-Sex Marriage Gets Nods from 35 Organizations

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35 Major Organizations Embrace President Obama’s Gay Marriage Support

Posted: 11 May 2012 05:15 AM PDT

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35 major organizations, from the AFL-CIO to the United Food and Commercial Workers Union, from  HRC and GLAAD to the ACLU and the National Center for Lesbian Rights, all voiced support for President Obama’s support of same-sex marriage on Wednesday.

Here are the statements, via the White House blog:

AFL-CIO

“Working people believe in equality and fairness and that’s why we are happy to stand with millions of Americans and with President Obama in supporting marriage equality.

“LGBT working people face numerous inequities in the workplace and in society as they struggle to care for their families. Civil unions do not guarantee the 1,138 rights, benefits and responsibilities that are triggered by the word “marriage” under federal law.

“Most important, we should respect and honor our friends, neighbors, and family members who want to take care of their families and their loved ones – whatever their sexual orientation. We are proud to come together for a more just America.”

AFSCME

“President Obama’s announcement today recognizes a fundamental American right – that every citizen is entitled to respect and dignity, and the equal protection of our laws.  For too long, lesbian and gay Americans have been denied the right to marry the person they love, raise a family and live as equal citizens in our country. They are denied access to pension benefits, Social Security survivor benefits, family health and bereavement leave and family immigration rights.  That discrimination harms all of us, not just LGBT Americans.  We have an obligation to work to overturn unjust laws and amendments to state constitutions that codify prejudice and promote discrimination against fellow citizens.  The President deserves praise for recognizing that this issue is about equality under the law and the right of all Americans to live their lives free from discrimination.”

American Civil Liberties Union

“President Obama is doing the right thing and showing leadership by recognizing that lesbians and gays should be treated as equal citizens.  The freedom to marry whomever we love and want to share our life with is fundamental to who we are and what we stand for as a country. The fight for fairness and equal treatment under the law for all Americans took a critical step forward today.”

American Federation of Teachers

“America’s greatness has been based in large part on our continual journey toward equality. President Obama’s action today on marriage equality continues that journey. I am proud to lead an organization that has, from our founding, stood firm against discrimination based on race, ethnicity, gender, physical disability or sexual orientation. The fight for civil rights not only in the workforce but also in every aspect of American life, is ongoing. Every American is entitled to equal shares of equality, liberty and happiness.”

American Foundation for Equal Rights

“President Obama’s words today will be celebrated by generations to come. For the millions of young gay and lesbian Americans across this nation, President Obama’s words provide genuine hope that they will be the first generation to grow up with the freedom to fully pursue the American dream. Marriage—the promise of love, companionship, and family—is basic to the pursuit of that dream. Our Constitution’s promise, the promise of liberty, is one that every generation must realize. As President Obama recognized today, the fight to secure marriage equality is the defining element of our generation’s search for greater freedom.”

Anti-Defamation League

“We strongly welcome the President’s endorsement of same-sex marriage equality.  It is a significant and historic step forward in the pursuit of equal opportunity, individual liberty and freedom from discrimination, and underscores the fact that no American should be denied access to the benefits of civil marriage because of his or her sexual orientation.  All citizens should be entitled to the same rights, protections and benefits.”

Center for American Progress

“We applaud the president’s decision as it is another large step toward realizing this country’s promise of equality. Indeed, President Obama today helped bend the arc of history toward justice. And his stance will be remembered as such.”

“President Obama made history today when he came out in full support of marriage rights for gay couples. Many Americans have thought about this issue and, like the president, have reconsidered their feelings about it. His journey is our journey.”

CWA

“The Communications Workers of America stands with the President and those who support equality and human rights.  We oppose all discrimination and recognize the direct linkage between civil and workers’ rights, and the attempts to divide Americans based on these issues.

Nearly ten years ago, CWA convention delegates called for full and equal rights including civil marriage, pointing out that far too many benefits and protections of civil marriage are denied to people on the basis of sexual orientation.  These often include health care and survivor benefits as well as other legal rights for partners.  It’s time to move forward. “

Equality Federation

“This is a watershed moment for marriage equality – the discussion will never be the same.  The President has taken a courageous position that will go down in history as the moment when the tide changed. The American public is moving rapidly in the direction of supporting marriage equality and the President, along with the others in his Administration, is taking his rightful place as a leader on this issue.”

Empire State Pride Agenda

“We are thrilled by President Obama’s declaration of support for marriage equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) Americans.  The President now joins the majority of New Yorkers and Americans who believe that all committed and loving couples should have the opportunity to enjoy the protections that marriage offers to them and their families.”

Family Equality Council

“This is a historic day for families everywhere… His support for our fundamental equality cannot be overstated.”

“We have long understood, deep in our hearts, that love makes a family, but there is no disputing that marriage strengthens it.  For more than 30 years, a generation of parents has focused on raising their children to love their country, support their friends and neighbors and treat all people with respect.  They have given these values to their children, but have been unable to provide them with simple legal and economic protections that other married couples count on for their kids.”

Freedom to Marry

“Today, President Obama added his voice to the growing chorus of Americans who believe that all loving and committed couples should share equally in the freedom to marry. Like so many others who have made this journey – from Bill Clinton to Laura Bush, most recently Vice President Biden, and a majority of the American people – President Obama has come to know loving and committed gay couples.  Through thought and conversation about these families and their dreams and challenges, President Obama has reflected on his own values of fairness and respect for others, and completed his journey to support for the freedom to marry. He now becomes the first sitting President to join the majority of Americans whose hearts have opened and minds have changed in favor of the freedom to marry.

Gay & Lesbian Advocates and Defenders

“President Obama has traveled a road that many Americans have traveled in recent years. Gay and lesbian couples have the same love and make the same commitment as all couples, and deserve the same recognition as full citizens. Our country’s history is one of expanding the circle of constitutional rights and protections to include more citizens, and our nation is always the better for it.”

GLAAD

“The arc of history today bent a little closer to equality for every American.  After hearing the stories of countless couples and families, President Obama has drawn the same conclusion shared across party lines and by a majority of Americans today: everyone deserves the opportunity to marry the person they love. As our nation draws closer to a more perfect union in which every person is created equal, we are left deeply encouraged by this truly watershed moment.”

Hadassah

“Hadassah commends President Obama for taking an important step today in showing his commitment to and respect for the LGBT community.  Hadassah has long supported LGBT rights, and we firmly believe that it is the government’s responsibility to ensure that all Americans are treated equally and have equal access to the same rights.  Hadassah is committed to the preservation of rights for all people and vigorously condemns discrimination of any kind.  As Zionists, Hadassah members understand the dangers of bigotry. …

“We look forward to continuing to work with the President as he expands civil rights for all Americans.”

Human Rights Campaign

“Today, President Obama made history by boldly stating that gay and lesbian Americans should be fully and equally part of the fabric of American society and that our families deserve nothing less than the equal respect and recognition that comes through marriage.

“His presidency has shown that our nation can move beyond its shameful history of discrimination and injustice. In him, millions of young Americans have seen that their futures will not be limited by what makes them different. In supporting marriage equality, President Obama extends that message of hope to a generation of young lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans, helping them understand that they too can be who they are and flourish as part of the American community. And his words remind gay and lesbian families across the country, who, like their neighbors, struggle to afford healthcare and college for their kids, pay their taxes and plan for retirement –but with the added burden of discrimination— that they do not face those challenges alone and unheard.

“Americans fundamentally believe in fairness, but many, like the President, have struggled to reconcile that core belief and the question of marriage equality. The President’s words will no doubt inspire thousands more conversations around kitchen tables and in church pews.  We are confident that our nation will continue to move inexorably toward equality and we thank the President for so boldly leading us in that direction.”

Interfaith Alliance

“President Obama’s affirmation of the right to same gender marriage today is an important and historic moment in the life of the nation.  His statement shows that he understands his role is to protect Constitutional principles over sectarian ideology.”

Lambda Legal

“We welcome the news that President Obama understands the importance of equality for all people in this country and we are excited that he joins the majority of Americans in supporting the freedom to marry.”

Minnesotans United for All Families

“Across this country, people are reaching the conclusion that it is wrong to make it illegal to marry the person you love… This is a positive development in America’s conversation on what marriage means and how the freedom to marry is intrinsic in our nation’s dedication to the values of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.

“This fall, Minnesotans will have the opportunity to vote on a proposed Constitutional Amendment that would limit the freedom to marry for some couples. For months, we’ve been having a conversation about what marriage means to us, and that conversation is happening in every part of our state. We know limiting that freedom is not in our state’s strong tradition of practicing the golden rule, of rejecting too much intrusion into our personal lives, and of not mixing religion and politics. There is not a bone in my conservative body that tells me that we should limit the freedom to marry for committed, same-sex couples.

“As support for defeating this amendment grows across this state, I am as confident as ever that Minnesotans will defeat this freedom-limiting Amendment in November. President Obama’s announcement today is a welcome development in this ongoing conversation.”

National Association of Hispanic Publications

“This is a giant step forward for civil rights, as the President openly acknowledged support for same-sex marriage.  With this support, President Obama has liberated Americans who previously felt relegated to the shadows.  It is our hope that this is a positive step toward helping all individuals in America feel included and that this level of compassion will set the tone for upcoming civil rights issues in the country, especially with regards to the immigration debate.”

National Black Justice Coalition

“It is an honor to witness our President take such a strong stand in support of gay and lesbian couples across the country. This affirmation reinforces the Administration’s ongoing commitment to LGBT Americans and our families.”

National Center for Lesbian Rights

“President Obama has once again proven himself to be the strongest and most principled supporter of full equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people ever to occupy the Oval Office. As he has done on so many other issues facing our community, the President showed his great depth of compassion and respect for the struggles faced by same-sex couples and their families and his commitment to genuine equality and justice for all people. This is an unforgettable day in our nation’s history, and one that will bring enormous comfort and hope to millions of Americans.”

National Council of Jewish Women

“NCJW hails President Obama’s decision to express his personal support for same-sex marriage. NCJW has been a staunch supporter of marriage equality and we happily welcome the president to this fight for fundamental human rights at this important time. While setbacks such as the lamentable vote yesterday in North Carolina are unfortunate, we firmly believe that supporters of marriage equality are on the right side of history. NCJW is proud to work with the President of the United States to ensure that gays and lesbians are protected equally under the law and are treated with the dignity they deserve.”

National Council of La Raza

“NCLR applauds President Obama for his historic remarks expressing support for marriage equality.  This issue is about doing the right thing and being on the right side of history.  Ensuring fairness and equality while protecting people from discrimination is at the heart of NCLR’s mission.”

“Like other Americans, Latinos have shifted their views on LGBT issues in recent years.  Acceptance and support for loving couples to have the right to marry is now shared by a majority of Latinos.

“We celebrate this historic moment with our allies in the LGBT community and with the millions of LGBT Latinos across the nation, and we look forward to working together to advance equal rights for all in the days ahead.”

Out & Equal

“It is historic and groundbreaking for the President of the United States to state that committed LGBT couples deserve the right to marry.  Along with equal access to employment, marriage equality is fundamental to the health and well being of all Americans.  This is another important step in the movement towards progress and equality for our community.”

Outserve

“Today, we thank our President for acknowledging that we deserve the full benefits of citizenship, including marriage. We are grateful for his leadership and courage on this issue.  Those of us in military service are always conscious of the tremendous sacrifices that our partners make to support us, and we look forward to the day when that will be reflected in the support that our country gives them.”

Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG National)

“Today, history was made. President Barack Obama took an historic step as the first American president in office to recognize the importance of the freedom to marry for ALL couples. He joins a majority of Americans who believe that everyone deserves the opportunity to create a loving, lasting and legal partnership—marriage—with the person they love, regardless of sexual orientation.

“The President now understands what PFLAG has said for 40 years: that there is power in sharing personal stories and that, when we do, hearts and minds can truly change as we realize our shared values of love and commitment. He has sent an important message to LGBT people, their parents, families, friends, and allies: that they are accepted for all that they are, that their enduring, loving relationships are the same as all others.

“For all of us at PFLAG who believe in the power of love and acceptance, the message the president sends to our LGBT children is loud and clear: You are loved. You are accepted. You are equal.

“We thank President Obama and welcome him to the PFLAG family.”

People For the American Way

“Today’s announcement marks a proud day for our country and for the President. For those of us who have been working towards marriage equality for many years, the impact of having the support of the President of the United States is incredibly powerful. As President Obama made clear in his comments today, marriage equality for all people is an idea whose time has come. Despite setbacks like the results from North Carolina last night, it’s more obvious than ever that the momentum is on our side.

“In recent years, more and more Americans have come to understand that preventing loving same-sex couples from getting married causes real harm to the people they care about. In families and communities across the country, Americans are coming to the same conclusion as the President: when two people make a public commitment to love and care for each other, that’s a marriage no matter what the gender of the people involved.”

SEIU

“Earlier today, President Obama joined a host of faith, civil rights, business and political leaders that have publicly voiced their support of marriage equality. The president’s support comes at a critical moment as the rights of LGBT people are under legislative attack in Minnesota, New Jersey, North Carolina and elsewhere. The president understands what we do – marriage equality is about family, community, love and justice.

“Across this country, right-wing Republican politicians are seeking to divide us with attacks on immigrants, the middle class, women’s health, the environment and the LGBT community – but the growing numbers of Americans who believe in marriage equality reminds us that we cannot live up to our promise as a nation until we extend equal rights to all.

“To those who have chosen to stand on the wrong side of history, we say this: There is growing momentum for equality in this country. And with each American that believes in equality, we are reminded that the continued dream of equality is our birthright, our heritage and our promise.

“For anyone who counts equality among the basic tenets of a free and just America, Pres. Obama’s announcement today is a victory.”

Servicemembers Legal Defense Network

“This is a great day for gay and lesbian service members, who are living with the daily reality that while they are now able to serve openly, they and their families are treated as second-class citizens under laws like the discriminatory Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA).  Certainly, the President’s leadership in repealing ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ laid the foundation for his reaching this positive outcome. We welcome the President’s support for marriage and will work with him to repeal DOMA and all laws that undermine equality and treat our service members unfairly.”

Sierra Club

“The Sierra Club applauds the courage and conviction President Barack Obama displayed today in supporting the basic human right of same sex couples to marry. Our 1.4 million members and supporters include people of every sexual orientation, and they are all as entitled to marry the person they chose as they are to the clean air, water, and beautiful landscapes they fight to protect.”

Third Way

“We salute the President for his announcement today in support of marriage for gay and lesbian couples.  This is an historic moment for the nation for which we express our deepest appreciation to the President.”

The Trevor Project

“Today, President Barack Obama set himself apart as a role model for all Americans to support the freedom to marry, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. Validating that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people are fully and equally deserving of love and the commitment of marriage sends a message to vulnerable youth that they have value and can dream for the future.

“At The Trevor Project, we know that family, community and religious acceptance all play a very strong role in the safety and well-being of LGBTQ young people. Thank you, Mr. President for speaking out as an accepting ally.”

Unitarian Universalist Association

“President Obama’s announcement today that he supports the right of same sex couples to marry is a courageous step forward in the direction of justice and equality for all Americans. I applaud the President’s decision to declare his support for the freedom to marry for all loving couples. Like many Americans, President Obama says his position on this issue has evolved over the years, and today it seems clear that the arc of the universe is bending toward justice.

“The Unitarian Universalist Association called for the freedom to marry for same-sex couples in 1996. Unitarian Universalists will continue to stand on the side of love for marriage equality until the freedom to marry belongs to all.”

United Food and Commercial Workers Union

“Marriage equality is an economic justice issue, and a social justice issue – and that makes it a union issue. In the UFCW, we have a long, proud history of standing up for fair and equal treatment for all workers – regardless of what they look like, where they come from, what language they speak, or who they love. These values are heartfelt. We work every day to fight discrimination and unfair treatment against LGBT people on the job. That’s why our union is a strong supporter of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) which would ensure justice in the workplace for LGBT workers. UFCW members have been negotiating equal health care coverage for same-sex couples into their union contracts all over the country for years. It’s the right thing to do, and the fair thing to do. I’m proud that the UFCW’s advocacy on behalf of families includes all families.”

Here’s my standard signoff for my blogs…

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Immigration Equality, Out4Immigration and Love Exiles Foundation are the three groups working on our issue – and the three groups who receive whatever money comes in from sales of my book, Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, Findhorn Press, 2011.

My newer project, with David W. Ross, whose new film “I Do: The Movie” will be out in June 2012, is a portrait project of LGBT binational families, United by Love, Divided by Law Portrait Project. It expands the reach of my book and will keep adding portraits as we find couples and funds to add more. We will hold events to assist the work being done for our families by Lavi Soloway and Stop the Deportations – The DOMA Project. Check out the site at

http://unitedbylovedividedbylaw.com/

and see the Facebook page at

https://www.facebook.com/unitedbylovedividedbylaw

To follow Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, go to its Facebook page at:

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Torn-Apart-United-by-Love-Divided-by-Law/116343758442046

Read an excerpt of my book at this link: http://bit.ly/eIyGxh

Order online from the publisher at this link:

http://www.findhornpress.com/relationships-43/torn-apart-392.html

Elizabeth Gilbert wrote the foreword to my book. She is an ally in our fight and has suffered from the immigration situation herself as part of a binational relationship. Though she and her boyfriend were able to marry, they know what the drill was and they advocate for LGBT binational families. We like that!

Remember, too, you can follow me and what I am doing and thinking and reading on twitter   @tornapartbook

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Thank You Mr. President! I Agree That Same-Sex Marriage Should Be Legal

Just heard the news, though anticipated, that President Obama has told the world through an interview with Robin Roberts, ABC News, that same-sex marriage should be legal. Wow! Today, May 9, 2012, is a watershed day.

One week ago I saw President Obama. I was on a White House tour on May 2, 2012, with my brother Jay and his wife Cecelia. We were in the Green Room. We had heard that the President would be arriving, so we waited at a window. The big Marine One helicopter came at us and turned and landed on the lawn. Next thing we knew President Obama was walking off the helicopter and across the lawn. What a thrill to see him waving to the people there. How proud I was of him and how excited Jay and Cecelia and I were.

Today Karin and I are more excited. We are proud of him and what he has done. Now we are more proud of him because of his public statement. We hope it helps us and the thousands of other LGBT binational couples faced with same-sex marriage-based immigration discrimination.

Thanks Mr. President. I have already sent an email to the White House to thank you. I hope you get it and I hope you know how important your statement today is for so many – and for the country.

Here’s my usual signoff…

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Immigration Equality, Out4Immigration and Love Exiles Foundation are the three groups working on our issue – and the three groups who receive whatever money comes in from sales of my book, Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, Findhorn Press, 2011.

My newer project, with David W. Ross, whose new film “I Do: The Movie” will be out in June 2012, is a portrait project of LGBT binational families, United by Love, Divided by Law Portrait Project. It expands the reach of my book and will keep adding portraits as we find couples and funds to add more. We will hold events to assist the work being done for our families by Lavi Soloway and Stop the Deportations – The DOMA Project. Check out the site at

http://unitedbylovedividedbylaw.com/

and see the Facebook page at

https://www.facebook.com/unitedbylovedividedbylaw

To follow Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, go to its Facebook page at:

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Torn-Apart-United-by-Love-Divided-by-Law/116343758442046

Read an excerpt of my book at this link: http://bit.ly/eIyGxh

Order online from the publisher at this link:

http://www.findhornpress.com/relationships-43/torn-apart-392.html

Elizabeth Gilbert wrote the foreword to my book. She is an ally in our fight and has suffered from the immigration situation herself as part of a binational relationship. Though she and her boyfriend were able to marry, they know what the drill was and they advocate for LGBT binational families. We like that!

Remember, too, you can follow me and what I am doing and thinking and reading on twitter   @tornapartbook

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Check Out this Blog – Entered in BBC Contest by Graduate Journalism Student in UK

Karin has been interviewed, as has Philippa and Michael and Claire and Katie and CJ and Graham and others from the UK with same-sex spouses in this very amazing and interesting blog by a UK graduate journalism student, Brian Plumridge. Click on the link for his blog, Blue Suburban Skies, which includes artwork and audio clips. The issue of gay and lesbian UK nationals married to US spouses is approached in an interesting manner. Brian has taken the position that the UK government could and should help UK citizens with their DOMA fight. Check it out at:

http://bluesuburbanskies-liverpool.blogspot.co.uk/2012/03/land-of-free-united-states-is-in-midst.html

Thanks to Brian for his work and being an ally to us. Thanks to those couples who participated. Thanks to William Laidlaw from the US Embassy Visas Office, London. Thanks to Professor Bill Jones, Liverpool Hope University.  Thanks to Member of Parliament Stephen Twigg, Shadow Secretary of State for Education, UK. Thanks to Congressman Mike Honda from the US who were interviewed. And thanks to the UK government when they act on this!

Here’s my usual sign-off to give you more information on our struggle and those who help us…

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Immigration Equality, Out4Immigration and Love Exiles Foundation are the three groups working on our issue – and the three groups who receive whatever money comes in from sales of my book, Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, Findhorn Press, 2011.

My newer project, with David W. Ross, whose new film “I Do: The Movie” will be out in June 2012, is a portrait project of LGBT binational families, United by Love, Divided by Law Portrait Project. It expands the reach of my book and will keep adding portraits as we find couples and funds to add more. We will hold events to assist the work being done for our families by Lavi Soloway and Stop the Deportations – The DOMA Project. Check out the site at

http://unitedbylovedividedbylaw.com/

and see the Facebook page at

https://www.facebook.com/unitedbylovedividedbylaw

To follow Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, go to its Facebook page at:

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Torn-Apart-United-by-Love-Divided-by-Law/116343758442046

Read an excerpt of my book at this link: http://bit.ly/eIyGxh

Order online from the publisher at this link:

http://www.findhornpress.com/relationships-43/torn-apart-392.html

Elizabeth Gilbert wrote the foreword to my book. She is an ally in our fight and has suffered from the immigration situation herself as part of a binational relationship. Though she and her boyfriend were able to marry, they know what the drill was and they advocate for LGBT binational families. We like that!

Remember, too, you can follow me and what I am doing and thinking and reading on twitter   @tornapartbook

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From Faith in America – Religion-Based Bigotry Defeats Marriage Equality Again

Sorry to report this tonight – re-posting from Faith in America…

Religion-based bigotry
defeats marriage equality again

History will have final say

Faith in America is saddened by the fact that a majority of voters in North Carolina on Tuesday were duped into believing their religious belief justified bringing harm to the state’s gay and lesbian individuals, especially youth and their families.

This segment of our population – good, decent citizens from all walks of life – will now live under a constitution that deems them unworthy and inferior because a majority of North Carolinians were lead to believe they were voting their religious conviction.

We acknowledge the right of voters to decide issues but we do not believe such an expression of bigotry should have been put to a vote by individuals who were banking on a win because of the populace’s misunderstanding about sexual orientation and society’s long embrace of religion-based animus toward gay and lesbian individuals.

If interracial marriage had been put to a vote 50 years ago, we have no doubt that the populace at that time would have placed a similar constitutional stamp of prejudice and discrimination against African Americans. If voters 50 years ago had been asked to decide whether our constitution should ban women from the pulpit, it is likely such a ban would have passed.

Bigotry, prejudice and hostility should never be equated with expression of religious conviction. Those who helped promote the notion that prejudice and bigotry toward their neighbor is a morally acceptable position should be ashamed of themselves. We hear some social conservatives rail against how the Taliban in Afghanistan will establish Sharia Law in that country and certain minorities will be persecuted based on misguided religious teaching.

Voters, many unknowingly, decided to change an esteemed constitution into a vehicle of state-sponsored persecution against gay and lesbian people. They did so because certain individuals and groups promoted the notion that homosexuality is evil and therefore marriage as God’s design should be protected from such evil.

While we are deeply saddened for what Tuesday’s vote really means for gay and lesbian youth and their families, we are encouraged by the knowledge that such acts of religion-based bigotry will not stand much longer.

History has proven time and time again that flawed biblical teaching cannot stand against moral justice and equality. The day is fast approaching when gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people will be free from the oppression of religion-based bigotry. For all those people who voted Tuesday to uplift moral justice and equality in voting against the amendment, know that your collective voices are as a mighty weight  bending the arc of history toward that day.

While saddened by the vote, Faith in America’s resolve to confront religion-based bigotry as the No. 1 instigator of harm to gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans this evening is only strengthened.

Editor’s note – For more information on Faith in America, go to this link:

www.faithinamerica.org/

Now, my regular blog sign-off…

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Immigration Equality, Out4Immigration and Love Exiles Foundation are the three groups working on our issue – and the three groups who receive whatever money comes in from sales of my book, Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, Findhorn Press, 2011.

My newer project, with David W. Ross, whose new film “I Do: The Movie” will be out in June 2012, is a portrait project of LGBT binational families, United by Love, Divided by Law Portrait Project. It expands the reach of my book and will keep adding portraits as we find couples and funds to add more. We will hold events to assist the work being done for our families by Lavi Soloway and Stop the Deportations – The DOMA Project. Check out the site at

http://unitedbylovedividedbylaw.com/

and see the Facebook page at

https://www.facebook.com/unitedbylovedividedbylaw

To follow Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, go to its Facebook page at:

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Torn-Apart-United-by-Love-Divided-by-Law/116343758442046

Read an excerpt of my book at this link: http://bit.ly/eIyGxh

Order online from the publisher at this link:

http://www.findhornpress.com/relationships-43/torn-apart-392.html

Elizabeth Gilbert wrote the foreword to my book. She is an ally in our fight and has suffered from the immigration situation herself as part of a binational relationship. Though she and her boyfriend were able to marry, they know what the drill was and they advocate for LGBT binational families. We like that!

Remember, too, you can follow me and what I am doing and thinking and reading on twitter   @tornapartbook

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Mariela Castro Espin, Raul Castro’s Daughter, is Champion of LGBT Rights in Cuba – Hear Her Interview

I received this Huffington Post article in my email while I was in Cuba. I visited for 10 days as a delegate with Witness for Peace. Interestingly, we visited the National Center for Sex Education in Havana at the time this interview was recorded and posted. Check it out and listen to the radio interview.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/brian-kahn/mariela-castro-espin-interview_b_1448953.html

We were pleased to hear of the work of the organization and how Cuba is striving to end discrimination and homophobia. We heard the same information in more than one meeting – the government and the country and the party see no difference among people. There should be no discrimination. I hope that keeps going and growing.

Here’s my regular sign-off for my posts:

Immigration Equality, Out4Immigration and Love Exiles Foundation are the three groups working on our issue – and the three groups who receive whatever money comes in from sales of my book, Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, Findhorn Press, 2011.

My newer project, with David W. Ross, whose new film “I Do: The Movie” will be out in June 2012, is a portrait project of LGBT binational families, United by Love, Divided by Law Portrait Project. It expands the reach of my book and will keep adding portraits as we find couples and funds to add more. We will hold events to assist the work being done for our families by Lavi Soloway and Stop the Deportations – The DOMA Project. Check out the site at

http://unitedbylovedividedbylaw.com/

and see the Facebook page at

https://www.facebook.com/unitedbylovedividedbylaw

To follow Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, go to its Facebook page at:

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Torn-Apart-United-by-Love-Divided-by-Law/116343758442046

Read an excerpt of my book at this link: http://bit.ly/eIyGxh

Order online from the publisher at this link:

http://www.findhornpress.com/relationships-43/torn-apart-392.html

Elizabeth Gilbert wrote the foreword to my book. She is an ally in our fight and has suffered from the immigration situation herself as part of a binational relationship. Though she and her boyfriend were able to marry, they know what the drill was and they advocate for LGBT binational families. We like that!

Remember, too, you can follow me and what I am doing and thinking and reading on twitter   @tornapartbook

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Sharing a Post from All Souls’ Rector John Beddingfield, Erwin de Leon – A Gay Binational Couple from Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law

New post on OP-e

The Sheer Meanness of Amendment 1

by Erwin de Leon

Next week, North Carolinians will vote on a measure that will define marriage in the state constitution as between one man and one woman. It is no secret that the authors of the amendment are singling out loving and committed gay couples who are already not allowed to legally wed in North Carolina.

My husband, who is the rector of an Episcopal congregation and a native North Carolinian, writes about Amendment 1 in our church bulletin:

All Souls Weekly

Volume 5, Number 24, May 6, 2012

Married Life

Though June is traditionally the month for marriage, it seems as though I am officiating and speaking to people more about marriage in the month of May.  As with teaching a class or preaching a sermon, I always find that when I’m offering counsel to a couple, I end up learning more than I could ever possibly impart or extend.

It so happens that I am talking and praying with couples about marriage at the same time that politicians are also talking a lot about marriage.  On May 8, North Carolina will vote on a proposed amendment defining marriage in the state constitution as between one man and one woman, and would ban any other type of “domestic legal union” such as civil unions and domestic partnerships.  Since same-sex marriage is already illegal in the state of North Carolina, this simply underscores and puts it in the constitution.  To me, not only does it seem bizarre (Is this really what state lawmakers need to be spending their time on?), but it also just seems mean-spirited.  I wonder about the married lives of the people who would craft and support such laws: is there any love in their marriage?  Does marriage for some require so much energy, effort, and work that there is no more love left over?  If so, this would be unfortunate and un-Biblical.

Marriage is about “love left over.”  It is never just about two people.  Jesus performs his first miracle at the wedding at Cana, but he does so not to point to marriage in any particular way.  He performs a miracle of abundance to illustrate the overflowing, uncontrollable, and unpredictable love of God.  The miracle at Cana is consistent with the parables Jesus tells about the kingdom of God—that wherever God’s love is let loose, we had better look out, because anything is liable to happen.  Mustard seeds grow into giant trees.  Mountains are moved.  Bread is made to feed multitudes. And one person falls in love with another, hoping to share that love with others.

When it comes to dim-witted and mean-spirited politicians, I am trying to follow the words of Jesus and pray for my enemies.  When it comes to marriage, I will continue to encourage, bless, and try to live the kind of marriage that creates overflowing love, love that imitates and reflects the ever-reaching love of God.  John Beddingfield

Thanks John and Erwin for all you do in the struggle to eradicate the immigration discrimination so many of us face.

My sign-off, as usual:

Immigration Equality, Out4Immigration and Love Exiles Foundation are the three groups working on our issue – and the three groups who receive whatever money comes in from sales of my book, Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, Findhorn Press, 2011.

My newer project, with David W. Ross, whose new film “I Do: The Movie” will be out in June 2012, is a portrait project of LGBT binational families, United by Love, Divided by Law Portrait Project. It expands the reach of my book and will keep adding portraits as we find couples and funds to add more. We will hold events to assist the work being done for our families by Lavi Soloway and Stop the Deportations – The DOMA Project. Check out the site at

http://unitedbylovedividedbylaw.com/

and see the Facebook page at

https://www.facebook.com/unitedbylovedividedbylaw

To follow Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, go to its Facebook page at:

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Torn-Apart-United-by-Love-Divided-by-Law/116343758442046

Read an excerpt of my book at this link: http://bit.ly/eIyGxh

Order online from the publisher at this link:

http://www.findhornpress.com/relationships-43/torn-apart-392.html

Elizabeth Gilbert wrote the foreword to my book. She is an ally in our fight and has suffered from the immigration situation herself as part of a binational relationship. Though she and her boyfriend were able to marry, they know what the drill was and they advocate for LGBT binational families. We like that!

Remember, too, you can follow me and what I am doing and thinking and reading on twitter   @tornapartbook

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VP Biden on Meet the Press May 6, 2012, Shares His Support for Same-Sex Marriage (From NY Times)

May 6, 2012, 11:02 am

Biden ‘Comfortable’ With Gay Marriage

By BRIAN KNOWLTON and MICHAEL BARBARO

12:09 p.m. | Updated Vice President Joseph R. Biden Jr. said on Sunday that he was “comfortable” with same-sex marriages, a position that appeared to go beyond the “evolving” views that President Obama has said he holds on the issue.

“I am absolutely comfortable with the fact that men marrying men, women marrying women and heterosexual men and women marrying one another are entitled to the same exact rights, all the civil rights, all the civil liberties,” Mr. Biden said in an appearance on the NBC News program “Meet the Press.”

Many gay and lesbian voters, while generally supportive of Mr. Obama, have grown frustrated with his reluctance to take a clear stance for same-sex marriage. He has come under increasing pressure to do so from gay donors, one of his more lucrative fund-raising sources.

In 1996, as a candidate for the State Senate in Illinois, Mr. Obama wrote on a candidate’s questionnaire that “I favor legalizing same-sex marriages.” But after he became president, the White House said that he was referring to civil unions, which he does support.

Mr. Obama has said since that his views on gay marriage were “evolving” but has also said individual states should set policy related to it.

Mr. Biden prefaced his remark in his NBC interview by saying, “The president sets the policy,” and his aides later indicated that the views he expressed were his own.

The White House immediately suggested on Sunday that the vice president had articulated no change in the administration’s official position on same-sex marriage. But some gay rights advocates said that Mr. Biden’s remarks seemed to convey unmistakable support for biggest cause.

“Trying now to walk this back will only hurt them,” said Richard Socarides, a political strategist who advised President Bill Clinton on gay rights. “You can’t clarify an answer as direct and candid and expansive as the one he gave.”

He added: “We know where Biden stands. It’s a welcome development.”

Mr. Biden remarks about gay marriage were wide-ranging. He spoke of the growing social acceptance of same-sex unions in the United States, even touching on the influence of the television show “Will and Grace,” the NBC sitcom that focused on gay characters.

“I just think that the good news is that as more and more Americans come to understand what this is all about is a simple proposition. Who do you love? Who do you love?” Mr. Biden said. “And will you be loyal to the person you love? And that’s what people are finding out is what, what all marriages, at their root, are about. Whether they’re marriages of lesbians or gay men or heterosexuals.”

Still unclear was whether Mr. Obama might have been using a top surrogates to send a message, as he seems to have done before on this subject.

Last year, for example, Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton said in Geneva that ”gay rights are human rights, and human rights are gay rights,” a message that Mr. Obama later enthusiastically endorsed.

And when Shaun Donovan, the secretary of housing and urban development, said in an interview that he supported the right of same-sex couples to marry, a senior administration official said that Mr. Donovan enjoyed ”the trust and respect of the president.”

The NBC interviewer, David Gregory, put the question directly to Mr. Biden during Sunday’s appearance: Would Mr. Obama support same-sex marriage in a second term? “I can’t speak to that,” he said. “I don’t know the answer to that.”

The  video of this is at this link:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=jJSYi3O_878

I’m glad to hear this! I have been out of the country in Cuba and away from the news for days. I will be catching up on this and what I have missed since mid-April.

And here’s my regular sign-off on my posts:

Immigration Equality, Out4Immigration and Love Exiles Foundation are the three groups working on our issue – and the three groups who receive whatever money comes in from sales of my book, Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, Findhorn Press, 2011.

My newer project, with David W. Ross, whose new film “I Do: The Movie” will be out in June 2012, is a portrait project of LGBT binational families, United by Love, Divided by Law Portrait Project. It expands the reach of my book and will keep adding portraits as we find couples and funds to add more. We will hold events to assist the work being done for our families by Lavi Soloway and Stop the Deportations – The DOMA Project. Check out the site at

http://unitedbylovedividedbylaw.com/

and see the Facebook page at

https://www.facebook.com/unitedbylovedividedbylaw

To follow Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, go to its Facebook page at:

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Torn-Apart-United-by-Love-Divided-by-Law/116343758442046

Read an excerpt of my book at this link: http://bit.ly/eIyGxh

Order online from the publisher at this link:

http://www.findhornpress.com/relationships-43/torn-apart-392.html

Elizabeth Gilbert wrote the foreword to my book. She is an ally in our fight and has suffered from the immigration situation herself as part of a binational relationship. Though she and her boyfriend were able to marry, they know what the drill was and they advocate for LGBT binational families. We like that!

Remember, too, you can follow me and what I am doing and thinking and reading on twitter   @tornapartbook

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Re-Posting “Feinstein’s Fight” – Her Determination to Get Rid of DOMA So LGBT Binational Families Can Be Together in America

Feinstein’s Fight

Editor’s Note: I found this on Facebook and am sharing – find out more about U.S. Senator Dianne Feinstein and her long-standing work for the LGBT community. She was one of those who did NOT vote for DOMA when it went through Congress before President Clinton’s signature made it law in 1996. Now she is helping us with her legislation Respect for Marriage Act. Let’s help her fight for LGBT binational families and help her get re-elected to the U.S. Senate! Thanks. You can donate online at this link:

https://secure.diannefeinstein2012.com/page/contribute

and please share it!

Go to Senator Feinstein’s Facebook page at this link:

https://www.facebook.com/DianneFeinstein

and please share it!

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Desert Outlook – One of the top issues in the busy 2012 political year is shaping up to be the effort to repeal DOMA, the Defense of Marriage Act. And leading the repeal fight is California’s senior U.S. Senator, Dianne Feinstein.

DOMA, passed in 1996, and signed by President Bill Clinton, prohibits federal recognition of gay and lesbian marriages.

Feinstein’s fight is a part of a tidal wave against DOMA. In February, a federal judge ruled DOMA is unconstitutional, the third such federal ruling against DOMA in two years. Also in February there was a U.S. Court of Appeals decision striking down California’s ban on samesex marriage. But Sen. Feinstein isn’t waiting for the courts to work through the appeals process. Instead, she is pressing to have DOMA repealed in Congress.

In an exclusive interview with Desert Outlook, Feinstein said her fight goes back to DOMA’s beginning.

“This isn’t new to me,” she said, “I was one of 14 to vote against DOMA 15 years ago. Essentially, what DOMA does is discrimination.”

She said because of DOMA there are more than 1,100 federal rights and benefits that are denied to married gay and lesbian couples, which are given to their straight counterparts.

Indeed, DOMA denies federal rights and benefits to legally married same-sex couples. Those couples can’t inherit Social Security benefits from a deceased partner, they can’t file joint federal income taxes (missing out on many deductions), and they can’t take unpaid leave under the federal Family Medical Leave Act.

Feinstein mentioned a local Coachella Valley case that came up at her hearings to repeal DOMA as an example of discrimination.

“Indio’s Ron Wallen testified that he and his husband had been together 58 years when his husband died. Wallen couldn’t inherit his husband’s Social Security and so he lost their house.”

Feinstein’s move to repeal DOMA coincides with shifting public opinion on the issue and on gay marriage in general – opinion that has changed dramatically since 1996. The most recent poll from Greenburg Quinlan Rosner (done in March 2011) found that 51 percent of Americans now oppose DOMA. That figure is in line with the most recent Gallup Poll on gay marriage (done in May 2011), which finds, for the first time, a majority of Americans, 53 percent, favor legal same-sex marriage.

Against that backdrop, Feinstein was able to pass a repeal of DOMA in the Senate Judiciary Committee this past November. Now she is trying to get more colleagues on board to bring it to the full Senate, then to the House.

For the full article in Desert Outlook go to this link:

http://www.pageturnpro.com/Desert-Sun-Times/37903-April-2012-Desert-Outlook/default.html#1

In related news, check out this Washington Blade article from March 2, 2012, about Senator Feinstein and others who want a same-sex marriage plank in the Democratic Party platform for the 2012 federal election. Go to

http://www.washingtonblade.com/2012/03/02/exclusive-18-u-s-senators-call-for-marriage-equality-plank-in-dem-platform/

____________________

And, as usual, I have my sign-off message…

Immigration Equality, Out4Immigration and Love Exiles Foundation are the three groups working on our issue – and the three groups who receive whatever money comes in from sales of my book, Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, Findhorn Press, 2011.

My newer project, with David W. Ross, whose new film “I Do: The Movie” will be out in June 2012, is a portrait project of LGBT binational families, United by Love, Divided by Law Portrait Project. It expands the reach of my book and will keep adding portraits as we find couples and funds to add more. We will hold events to assist the work being done for our families by Lavi Soloway and Stop the Deportations – The DOMA Project. Check out the site at

http://unitedbylovedividedbylaw.com/

and see the Facebook page at

https://www.facebook.com/unitedbylovedividedbylaw

To follow Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, go to its Facebook page at:

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Torn-Apart-United-by-Love-Divided-by-Law/116343758442046

Read an excerpt of my book at this link: http://bit.ly/eIyGxh

Order online from the publisher at this link:

http://www.findhornpress.com/relationships-43/torn-apart-392.html

Elizabeth Gilbert wrote the foreword to my book. She is an ally in our fight and has suffered from the immigration situation herself as part of a binational relationship. Though she and her boyfriend were able to marry, they know what the drill was and they advocate for LGBT binational families. We like that!

Remember, too, you can follow me and what I am doing and thinking and reading on twitter   @tornapartbook

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On the Green Card Trail – Step 3. A Work Permit Arrived in the Mail – A Surprise for Us!

After Karin had her biometrics appointment on March 27, we figured it would be a while before anything happened on the green card trail. We knew we would have “the marriage appointment” but didn’t know when that would be.

But we didn’t know Karin would get a work permit until the thing showed up in the mail this week. What a surprise! Turns out it is usual, per our lawyer, but we didn’t know that and didn’t expect that. And Karin does not want to go find a job – she’s going to be 72 in August this year.

But now she has it and it is just one more step in this amazing journey. We have been stunned all along that we are being treated like any other applicant. They took our money. They took all the documents they required. They took Karin’s physical exam report – submitted sealed by the doctor. They sent a receipt. They sent an appointment for biometrics, which Karin completed on March 27. Now they sent this card!

The card – I blanked out identifying case numbers just in case…

The paperwork with the card was not extensive, but it does state some interesting things.

“Enclosed is your new employment authorization card. This card is valid until the date specified on the card (in her case, March 26, 2013). If the card expires before U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) makes a final decision on our Form I-485, Application for Adjustment of Status, you may apply for a new card. It goes on to give information on how to do that.

Here’s the clincher – don’t think Karin has read this yet. “If you have received a card that contains the statement ‘SERVES AS I-512 ADVANCE PAROLE’ you have received a Combinationa Employment Authorization/Advance Parole Card. We call it a ‘combo card.’ The combo card permits you to work in the United States and to travel outside the United States and return while your Form I-485 is pending with USCIS.”

Wow! Funny to read that now after we have been sad for months at not being able to go to Scotland in August to attend son Michael’s wedding to Shirley. We sent them money to visit us in September since Karin couldn’t go to Scotland and we agreed we’d rather have them here than me there without Karin. Wonder what would have happened if she had, now that we have the combo card? The back side of the form gives all kinds of information and warnings. Seems MUCH safer to stay here and we already have the information on Michael and Shirley’s visit, which we are really looking forward to!

Here’s Karin and her combo card – when she wakes up I will share the information I just shared with you…

Life is very interesting if you are part of an LGBT binational couple these days…we are finding out all kinds of things and hoping to help all the others in our situation. Our next step on the Green Card trail is “the marriage interview.” We got that date in the mail this week – report on May 7 and there’s a long list of things to bring – including me! Hope it goes well…

________________

And, as usual, I have my sign-off message…

Immigration Equality, Out4Immigration and Love Exiles Foundation are the three groups working on our issue – and the three groups who receive whatever money comes in from sales of my book, Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, Findhorn Press, 2011.

My newer project, with David W. Ross, whose new film “I Do: The Movie” will be out in June 2012, is a portrait project of LGBT binational families, United by Love, Divided by Law Portrait Project. It expands the reach of my book and will keep adding portraits as we find couples and funds to add more. We will hold events to assist the work being done for our families by Lavi Soloway and Stop the Deportations – The DOMA Project. Check out the site at

http://unitedbylovedividedbylaw.com/

and see the Facebook page at

https://www.facebook.com/unitedbylovedividedbylaw

To follow Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, go to its Facebook page at:

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Torn-Apart-United-by-Love-Divided-by-Law/116343758442046

Read an excerpt of my book at this link: http://bit.ly/eIyGxh

Order online from the publisher at this link:

http://www.findhornpress.com/relationships-43/torn-apart-392.html

Elizabeth Gilbert wrote the foreword to my book. She is an ally in our fight and has suffered from the immigration situation herself as part of a binational relationship. Though she and her boyfriend were able to marry, they know what the drill was and they advocate for LGBT binational families. We like that!

Remember, too, you can follow me and what I am doing and thinking and reading on twitter   @tornapartbook

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Old Lesbians Organizing for Change Is Not Just Me and Karin – It’s an Organization, OLOC!

I have been sorting through things on my desk and found a brochure I picked up somewhere – maybe at the San Francisco LGBT Center when we were there a few months ago before an Immigration Equality meet and greet with Rachel B. Tiven across the street. Not sure, but think that’s it.

OLOC – Old Lesbians Organizing for Change, is the group. This brochure is specific to the San Francisco Bay Area. The mission? Creating community for lesbians over 60. Wow!

The first panel inside says “We come together to make life better for Old Lesbians.” It continues to say “We help each other develop meaningful and pleasurable lives that acknowledge our physical limitations.”

“We provide practical and emotional support through small circles that meet regularly.”

“OLOC provides Old Lesbians with the chance to meet like-minded women in our common struggle to challenge ageism, to share mutual interests, and to experience the joy and warmth of playing and working together.

I was intrigued, so I went online and found their site. Turns out they will have their annual gathering in July in Boston, so I sent an email and asked whether I might do a workshop on our issue. Their theme is Bridges to Justice. That’s apropos! Waiting to hear back.

One of the parts of the brochure I liked the most was this section – “We raise our voices against injustice of all kinds: racism, ageism, and homophobia. We are a proud and active presence in social justice activities.” That’s terrific!

Women of OLOC call themselves OLD with pride, it continues, and in doing so, “we challenge the stereotypes directly. Thus, we empower and change each other, and the world.”

This resonates so much with me. I lived through the 70′s and 80′s lesbian and feminist lesbian culture. I am one of these women. It will be different for Karin – she does not have the same history or institutional memory. But if we do go to Boston for this annual gathering, I know she will be amazed at the women and appreciative of the programs – and the good old lesbian music, which was called women’s music – or womyn’s music back then!

So if you are interested in OLOC, check out their site at www.oloc.org and find the regional groups that might be near where you are. Find out about the national gathering at their site at http://www.oloc.org/news/summer2012.php

If we do go to the national annual gathering, you can bet we will post photos and stories of the gathering and I will be happily going down memory lane, for sure!

________________

And, as usual, I have my sign-off message…

Immigration Equality, Out4Immigration and Love Exiles Foundation are the three groups working on our issue – and the three groups who receive whatever money comes in from sales of my book, Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, Findhorn Press, 2011.

My newer project, with David W. Ross, whose new film “I Do: The Movie” will be out in June 2012, is a portrait project of LGBT binational families, United by Love, Divided by Law Portrait Project. It expands the reach of my book and will keep adding portraits as we find couples and funds to add more. We will hold events to assist the work being done for our families by Lavi Soloway and Stop the Deportations – The DOMA Project. Check out the site at

http://unitedbylovedividedbylaw.com/

and see the Facebook page at

https://www.facebook.com/unitedbylovedividedbylaw

To follow Torn Apart: United by Love, Divided by Law, go to its Facebook page at:

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Torn-Apart-United-by-Love-Divided-by-Law/116343758442046

Read an excerpt of my book at this link: http://bit.ly/eIyGxh

Order online from the publisher at this link:

http://www.findhornpress.com/relationships-43/torn-apart-392.html

Elizabeth Gilbert wrote the foreword to my book. She is an ally in our fight and has suffered from the immigration situation herself as part of a binational relationship. Though she and her boyfriend were able to marry, they know what the drill was and they advocate for LGBT binational families. We like that!

Remember, too, you can follow me and what I am doing and thinking and reading on twitter   @tornapartbook

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