Monthly Archives: November 2010

Hi from Oregon, sweetie! I have been very quiet and sad for days. I helped Joan with the plans for John’s Celebration of Life and that was all done in time. I went with her to the cremation society and … Continue reading →

I wonder how your Thanksgiving was in Salem with your father’s family. Strangely enough, I also celebrated it here in Scotland with some American friends. We had the turkey and all the trimmings, and pies and a wonderful bottle of … Continue reading →

Karin, I have pretty much decided to go to New York! Thierry says to come, he has rented a flat there while he goes to some publisher meetings. I told Ed I was thinking about going and he says to … Continue reading →

You’re right, Karin, “firsts” are hard – harder for people like Joan, who has never had a breakup or loss like she is feeling now. At least we have had some practice, but that isn’t good news really – although … Continue reading →

So glad you managed to celebrate Kate’s birthday. I know every “first” without John is going to be terribly difficult and painful for Joan, Kate and you. I am settling in here at Findhorn, visiting old friends, getting to know … Continue reading →

Hi honey – wanted to share what looks like good news for Roi and Aurelio, the couple I interviewed who have a very sad situation. Remember their story? Both HIV+ and now separated for three years because of the immigration … Continue reading →

Today I drove Joan to Concord where we met Kate and Mark for lunch at Benihana, a Japanese teppanyaki restaurant. I know we haven’t been there before, but I am sure you know what teppanyaki is – they cook at … Continue reading →

I understand how difficult it is for you to write at the moment while you are taking care of so many things. So I’ll continue to share my adventures over here with you. It took me two days to drive … Continue reading →

My poor darling, so many awful things happening at once. My prayers and heart are with you all. I would give anything to to be able to be with you all and share your sorrow there together. Here in England … Continue reading →